Our Mission Statement: We serve to empower widows to “lean into life,” build resilience and release their potential to make a positive difference in the world.

Join us for our meeting of the Southern Illinois Chapter of  Modern Widows Club! We meet every 2nd Tuesday of the month. Stay tuned each month for more information!


  • DATE: 2nd Tuesday of the Month
  • TIME: 5:30 – 7:30 pm
  • PLACE:  Contact the Chapter Leaders for Meeting Location and Details
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Southern Illinois Modern Widows Club is designed to create a safe and private environment for widows to lean into life together through the journey.

Modern Widows Club is the club no one wants to be in because you only get in by virtue of experiencing a great loss. Yet what I hope you find once you’re here is that you’re surrounded by a community of really amazing women that you can lean on and learn from. We’re not group therapy. We’re not a support group. We’re widows helping widows to live— to go upward and onward. Sometimes we cry and sometimes we laugh. We talk about how to tackle challenges without our husbands’ help and cheer each other on. We often share food as we do this, because who doesn’t like to eat?
When a woman loses her husband she tends to feel very alone. Regardless of her age or circumstances, she can use other women in her life who understand the unique challenges she is now faced with. She needs women who will build her up and encourage her in this new life she walks. We are stronger together. No woman is an island. We need each other.

  Meet our Leaders

Chapter Lead – Jenn F.

At the age of 28, there was a knock at her door and she looked out and saw 4 Military Personnel. Her heart sank and in that moment her life was shattered. Through the years in Women’s Ministry and as a Professional Photographer, she has had the unique opportunity to minister and empower women through their personal journeys.

With a heart that desires to reach women with love and compassion, her desire is to give them that safe place she needed when her husband died.

Chapter Co-Leader: Amber R.

Chapter Co-Leader: Rachel M.