“Living for today, while honoring yesterday” is what “modern” means for us.


  • Chapters are currently meeting virtually. Contact the Chapter Leaders for meeting location and details.
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We have a vibrant group of ladies who want to live and thrive! An RSVP is needed by emailing Debby S. as light appetizers will be served. We are excited to offer widows another positive option beyond grief counseling. Widowhood is an overwhelming journey and we are here to laugh, cry, and hold your hand as we move forward together discovering and embracing our “new normal.”

For the next few months we will be meeting twice a month. The 2nd Wednesday of the month at a local living center from 6:30-7:30; and the 2nd Thursday of the month at a private residence from 6:30-8:30.

  Meet our Leaders

Chapter Leader:  Debby S.

Debby is a former Co-Leader of the Seattle Chapter of Modern Widows Club. She recently moved to Tucson to be near her first grandchild. She came to Tucson dreaming of launching a MWC Chapter to serve, empower and mentor widows.  Debby was widowed on the morning of April 4, 2011. Her husband, lover, and best friend, Jay, suffered a heart attack. Shattered and broken, her life as she knew it completely changed in that moment. Later that day she prayed asking God to give her the strength and wisdom to do this journey well, in a way that honored Jay, and would honor God, and bring purpose and meaning to Jay’s death. Cindy, the Seattle Chapter Leader invited Debby to come to a meeting. After attending three meetings, Cindy asked her if she’d consider being her Co-Leader, and “the rest is history!” Leading and launching a chapter is an answer to her prayer!

Chapter Leader:  Rebecca P.

Rebecca was vacationing with her family on their annual trip to the Florida Keys. She woke up Thanksgiving morning 2012 to find her husband Matt passed away from a sudden cardio myopathy at the age of 39. She was 41. They were happily married for almost 16 years.
Nearly six years later she has relocated to Tucson with her two sons and new husband who is widowed as well. She is looking forward to getting to know and helping other women who have experienced the struggles and challenges that young widows like her faced.

Chapter Sponsor:  Dignity Memorial, Tucson